{"id":29610,"date":"2026-05-08T07:18:04","date_gmt":"2026-05-08T07:18:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=29610"},"modified":"2026-05-08T07:18:04","modified_gmt":"2026-05-08T07:18:04","slug":"i-sat-across-from-him-and-listed-every-impossible-standard-i-had-i-need-a-man-with-money-status-a-house-a-car-and-absolutely-no-lies-he-smiled-wearing-a-plain-shirt-an","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=29610","title":{"rendered":"I sat across from him and listed every impossible standard I had. \u201cI need a man with money, status, a house, a car\u2026 and absolutely no lies.\u201d He smiled, wearing a plain shirt and cheap-looking watch. \u201cSo\u2026 you wouldn\u2019t choose someone like me?\u201d I laughed. \u201cHonestly? No.\u201d Then the restaurant manager bowed beside our table. \u201cBoss, your private jet is ready.\u201d My fork froze. And his next words shattered everything I thought I knew\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"
\n
\n
\n
\n
\n
\n

I sat across from him and listed every impossible standard I had.<\/p>\n

\u201cI need a man with money, status, a house, a car\u2026 and absolutely no lies.\u201d<\/p>\n

The words came out sharper than I meant them to, but I didn\u2019t take them back. After two years of dating men who promised the world and couldn\u2019t even pay their own rent, I had decided honesty was no longer enough. I wanted proof. Stability. A man who could walk into my life and not turn it into another unpaid bill.<\/p>\n

Across the table, Ethan Miller only smiled.<\/p>\n

He wore a plain navy shirt, faded jeans, and a watch that looked like it came from a clearance rack. His hair was neatly combed, his voice calm, his manners almost too gentle. He didn\u2019t look poor, exactly. He looked\u2026 ordinary. The kind of man my mother would call \u201cnice,\u201d which usually meant \u201csafe but boring.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cSo\u2026\u201d he said, leaning back slightly, \u201cyou wouldn\u2019t choose someone like me?\u201d<\/p>\n

I laughed before I could stop myself. \u201cHonestly? No.\u201d<\/p>\n

For a second, something flickered in his eyes. Not anger. Not embarrassment. Something quieter. Disappointment, maybe.<\/p>\n

I looked away, pretending to sip my water.<\/p>\n

This blind date had been arranged by my best friend, Madison, who had sworn Ethan was \u201cdifferent.\u201d But she had also once called a man with three roommates and a gambling problem \u201cemotionally available,\u201d so I wasn\u2019t exactly trusting her judgment.<\/p>\n

Ethan folded his hands on the table. \u201cWhat if a man had everything you wanted, but didn\u2019t show it right away?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cThen he\u2019s playing games,\u201d I said. \u201cAnd I\u2019m done with games.\u201d<\/p>\n

He nodded slowly. \u201cFair.\u201d<\/p>\n

The dinner continued awkwardly. He asked about my work as a marketing coordinator, my family, the small apartment I was trying to save up to leave. He listened carefully, which annoyed me because I didn\u2019t want to like anything about him.<\/p>\n

Then, just as dessert arrived, the restaurant manager hurried to our table.<\/p>\n

He bowed his head slightly.<\/p>\n

\u201cMr. Miller, your driver called. The aircraft is ready whenever you are.\u201d<\/p>\n

My fork froze halfway to my mouth.<\/p>\n

Ethan\u2019s smile disappeared.<\/p>\n

I stared at him. \u201cAircraft?\u201d<\/p>\n

The manager looked at me, then back at Ethan. \u201cYour private jet, sir.\u201d<\/p>\n

My heart dropped.<\/p>\n

Ethan turned to me and said quietly, \u201cI didn\u2019t lie, Claire. You just assumed I had nothing.\u201d<\/p>\n

For a moment, the whole restaurant seemed to disappear.<\/p>\n

I could hear the soft piano music, the clink of silverware, someone laughing at a nearby table, but it all sounded far away. My eyes were fixed on Ethan, the man I had dismissed less than ten minutes earlier as too simple, too average, too ordinary to matter.<\/p>\n

\u201cYour private jet?\u201d I whispered.<\/p>\n

He gave the manager a small nod. \u201cTell Marcus I\u2019ll be out shortly.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cYes, sir.\u201d<\/p>\n

The manager left, and silence settled between us like a wall.<\/p>\n

I felt heat crawl up my neck. \u201cSo this was a test?\u201d<\/p>\n

Ethan\u2019s jaw tightened. \u201cNo. It was a date.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cA date where you showed up pretending to be someone else?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cI didn\u2019t pretend.\u201d His voice stayed calm, but there was pain under it now. \u201cI wore my clothes. I ordered dinner. I answered every question honestly. You never asked what I did for a living.\u201d<\/p>\n

I opened my mouth, then closed it.<\/p>\n

He was right.<\/p>\n

I had asked about his car. His neighborhood. His watch. His \u201cplans.\u201d But I had never asked who he was. Not really.<\/p>\n

Ethan took a slow breath. \u201cI own a logistics company. Miller Freight Solutions. We work with hospitals, food suppliers, and emergency response teams across six states. I built it with my father before he passed.\u201d<\/p>\n

My stomach twisted.<\/p>\n

All evening, I had been measuring him by the wrong things while he had been quietly offering pieces of himself that actually mattered.<\/p>\n

\u201cMy father used to say,\u201d Ethan continued, \u201c\u2018A person who respects the waiter but looks down on the janitor doesn\u2019t have class. They have costume jewelry.\u2019 So when I meet someone new, I don\u2019t lead with money.\u201d<\/p>\n

I looked down at my plate. \u201cAnd I failed.\u201d<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t answer right away.<\/p>\n

That hurt more than if he had agreed immediately.<\/p>\n

\u201cI understand wanting security,\u201d he said. \u201cI do. I grew up watching my mom count coupons at the kitchen table. I know what fear looks like when rent is due. But there\u2019s a difference between wanting a stable partner and treating people like r\u00e9sum\u00e9s.\u201d<\/p>\n

His words landed hard because they were true.<\/p>\n

I had spent years being disappointed by men who hid their flaws, inflated their dreams, or borrowed confidence from my paycheck. Somewhere along the way, I had confused protection with arrogance. I had turned standards into armor, and tonight I had used that armor like a weapon.<\/p>\n

\u201cI\u2019m sorry,\u201d I said, and for once, I didn\u2019t decorate the apology. \u201cI was rude. You didn\u2019t deserve that.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ethan studied me carefully.<\/p>\n

The romantic part of me hoped he would smile, forgive me instantly, and say something charming enough to rescue the night. But real life doesn\u2019t move that cleanly.<\/p>\n

He reached for his napkin and placed it beside his plate.<\/p>\n

\u201cI appreciate the apology,\u201d he said. \u201cBut I need to know something, Claire.\u201d<\/p>\n

My chest tightened. \u201cWhat?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cIf the manager hadn\u2019t said anything\u2026 would you have ever tried to see me?\u201d<\/p>\n

I had no answer.<\/p>\n

And that silence told us both the truth.<\/p>\n

Ethan stood, and I felt something panic inside me.<\/p>\n

Not because I had lost a rich man. That would have been the easy, ugly explanation. No, the panic came because I had lost the first man in a long time who had looked at me as if my answers mattered more than my appearance. He had listened when I talked about my work stress. He had remembered my sister\u2019s name. He had laughed softly at my dry jokes even after I insulted him without realizing how cruel I sounded.<\/p>\n

\u201cEthan,\u201d I said, standing too quickly. \u201cWait.\u201d<\/p>\n

He paused, but he didn\u2019t sit back down.<\/p>\n

\u201cI can\u2019t fix what I said,\u201d I admitted. \u201cAnd I\u2019m not going to pretend I suddenly became a better person in the last five minutes. But I do want to be better than the woman who sat down at this table.\u201d<\/p>\n

His expression softened slightly, but only slightly.<\/p>\n

I continued before fear could stop me. \u201cI thought I was protecting myself. I thought if I demanded enough up front, nobody could fool me again. But I became unfair. I judged you before I knew you. And honestly\u2026 I\u2019m ashamed.\u201d<\/p>\n

For the first time all night, my voice shook.<\/p>\n

Ethan looked toward the window, where the city lights reflected against the glass. Then he looked back at me.<\/p>\n

\u201cMy jet isn\u2019t taking me to some glamorous party,\u201d he said. \u201cOne of our warehouses in Denver had a fire. No one was hurt, but I need to meet my team.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cOh,\u201d I said softly.<\/p>\n

\u201cThat\u2019s my life,\u201d he added. \u201cNot champagne and yachts. Responsibility. Phone calls at midnight. People depending on me. I don\u2019t need someone impressed by the money. I need someone who understands the weight that comes with it.\u201d<\/p>\n

I nodded. \u201cI don\u2019t know if I\u2019m that person yet.\u201d<\/p>\n

His eyes met mine.<\/p>\n

\u201cBut I\u2019d like the chance to become her,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n

For a long second, neither of us moved.<\/p>\n

Then Ethan reached into his pocket, pulled out a business card, and placed it on the table.<\/p>\n

\u201cCall me tomorrow,\u201d he said. \u201cNot tonight. Tomorrow. After you\u2019ve thought about whether you want to know me\u2026 or just what I have.\u201d<\/p>\n

Then he walked away.<\/p>\n

I watched through the window as a black car pulled up outside. The driver opened the door, and Ethan got in without looking back.<\/p>\n

That night, I went home to my tiny apartment and sat on the edge of my bed with his card in my hand. Miller Freight Solutions. Ethan Miller, CEO.<\/p>\n

But for the first time, the title wasn\u2019t what made my heart race.<\/p>\n

It was the man who had given me the truth and then left me alone with mine.<\/p>\n

The next morning, I called him.<\/p>\n

And when he answered, I didn\u2019t ask about his jet, his house, or his money.<\/p>\n

I said, \u201cHi, Ethan. I\u2019d like to start over. Can I take you out for coffee?\u201d<\/p>\n

There was a pause.<\/p>\n

Then he said, \u201cOnly if you let me wear the cheap watch again.\u201d<\/p>\n

I laughed, and this time, it was real.<\/p>\n

Would you have given Claire a second chance after what she said, or would you have walked away for good? Let me know what you think.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I sat across from him and listed every impossible standard I had. \u201cI need a man with money, status, a house, a car\u2026 and absolutely no lies.\u201d The words came out sharper than I meant them to, but I didn\u2019t take them back. After two years of dating men who promised the world and couldn\u2019t […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":29611,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-29610","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-life-new"],"yoast_head":"\nI sat across from him and listed every impossible standard I had. \u201cI need a man with money, status, a house, a car\u2026 and absolutely no lies.\u201d He smiled, wearing a plain shirt and cheap-looking watch. \u201cSo\u2026 you wouldn\u2019t choose someone like me?\u201d I laughed. \u201cHonestly? No.\u201d Then the restaurant manager bowed beside our table. \u201cBoss, your private jet is ready.\u201d My fork froze. And his next words shattered everything I thought I knew\u2026 - True Stories<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=29610\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"I sat across from him and listed every impossible standard I had. \u201cI need a man with money, status, a house, a car\u2026 and absolutely no lies.\u201d He smiled, wearing a plain shirt and cheap-looking watch. \u201cSo\u2026 you wouldn\u2019t choose someone like me?\u201d I laughed. \u201cHonestly? No.\u201d Then the restaurant manager bowed beside our table. \u201cBoss, your private jet is ready.\u201d My fork froze. And his next words shattered everything I thought I knew\u2026 - True Stories\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"I sat across from him and listed every impossible standard I had. \u201cI need a man with money, status, a house, a car\u2026 and absolutely no lies.\u201d The words came out sharper than I meant them to, but I didn\u2019t take them back. After two years of dating men who promised the world and couldn\u2019t […]\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=29610\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"True Stories\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2026-05-08T07:18:04+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"http:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Create_a_single_vertical_9_16_202605081416.jpeg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"558\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"1000\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"true love\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"true love\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"7 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=29610\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=29610\",\"name\":\"I sat across from him and listed every impossible standard I had. \u201cI need a man with money, status, a house, a car\u2026 and absolutely no lies.\u201d He smiled, wearing a plain shirt and cheap-looking watch. \u201cSo\u2026 you wouldn\u2019t choose someone like me?\u201d I laughed. \u201cHonestly? No.\u201d Then the restaurant manager bowed beside our table. \u201cBoss, your private jet is ready.\u201d My fork froze. And his next words shattered everything I thought I knew\u2026 - True Stories\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/#website\"},\"primaryImageOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=29610#primaryimage\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=29610#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Create_a_single_vertical_9_16_202605081416.jpeg\",\"datePublished\":\"2026-05-08T07:18:04+00:00\",\"author\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/#\/schema\/person\/5c3397997033ec1244d0e345888afa8e\"},\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=29610#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=29610\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=29610#primaryimage\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Create_a_single_vertical_9_16_202605081416.jpeg\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Create_a_single_vertical_9_16_202605081416.jpeg\",\"width\":558,\"height\":1000},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=29610#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"I sat across from him and listed every impossible standard I had. \u201cI need a man with money, status, a house, a car\u2026 and absolutely no lies.\u201d He smiled, wearing a plain shirt and cheap-looking watch. \u201cSo\u2026 you wouldn\u2019t choose someone like me?\u201d I laughed. \u201cHonestly? No.\u201d Then the restaurant manager bowed beside our table. \u201cBoss, your private jet is ready.\u201d My fork froze. And his next words shattered everything I thought I knew\u2026\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/\",\"name\":\"True Stories\",\"description\":\"\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":{\"@type\":\"PropertyValueSpecification\",\"valueRequired\":true,\"valueName\":\"search_term_string\"}}],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\"},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/#\/schema\/person\/5c3397997033ec1244d0e345888afa8e\",\"name\":\"true love\",\"image\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/7edec003db6c2d994c618a5c9257e4836d0823076211ef1f440ea5b2dfb07eb1?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/7edec003db6c2d994c618a5c9257e4836d0823076211ef1f440ea5b2dfb07eb1?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"caption\":\"true love\"},\"sameAs\":[\"http:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\"],\"url\":\"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/?author=2\"}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"I sat across from him and listed every impossible standard I had. \u201cI need a man with money, status, a house, a car\u2026 and absolutely no lies.\u201d He smiled, wearing a plain shirt and cheap-looking watch. \u201cSo\u2026 you wouldn\u2019t choose someone like me?\u201d I laughed. \u201cHonestly? No.\u201d Then the restaurant manager bowed beside our table. \u201cBoss, your private jet is ready.\u201d My fork froze. And his next words shattered everything I thought I knew\u2026 - True Stories","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=29610","og_locale":"en_US","og_type":"article","og_title":"I sat across from him and listed every impossible standard I had. \u201cI need a man with money, status, a house, a car\u2026 and absolutely no lies.\u201d He smiled, wearing a plain shirt and cheap-looking watch. \u201cSo\u2026 you wouldn\u2019t choose someone like me?\u201d I laughed. \u201cHonestly? No.\u201d Then the restaurant manager bowed beside our table. \u201cBoss, your private jet is ready.\u201d My fork froze. And his next words shattered everything I thought I knew\u2026 - True Stories","og_description":"I sat across from him and listed every impossible standard I had. \u201cI need a man with money, status, a house, a car\u2026 and absolutely no lies.\u201d The words came out sharper than I meant them to, but I didn\u2019t take them back. After two years of dating men who promised the world and couldn\u2019t […]","og_url":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=29610","og_site_name":"True Stories","article_published_time":"2026-05-08T07:18:04+00:00","og_image":[{"width":558,"height":1000,"url":"http:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Create_a_single_vertical_9_16_202605081416.jpeg","type":"image\/jpeg"}],"author":"true love","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_misc":{"Written by":"true love","Est. reading time":"7 minutes"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=29610","url":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=29610","name":"I sat across from him and listed every impossible standard I had. \u201cI need a man with money, status, a house, a car\u2026 and absolutely no lies.\u201d He smiled, wearing a plain shirt and cheap-looking watch. \u201cSo\u2026 you wouldn\u2019t choose someone like me?\u201d I laughed. \u201cHonestly? No.\u201d Then the restaurant manager bowed beside our table. \u201cBoss, your private jet is ready.\u201d My fork froze. And his next words shattered everything I thought I knew\u2026 - True Stories","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/#website"},"primaryImageOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=29610#primaryimage"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=29610#primaryimage"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Create_a_single_vertical_9_16_202605081416.jpeg","datePublished":"2026-05-08T07:18:04+00:00","author":{"@id":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/#\/schema\/person\/5c3397997033ec1244d0e345888afa8e"},"breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=29610#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"en-US","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=29610"]}]},{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=29610#primaryimage","url":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Create_a_single_vertical_9_16_202605081416.jpeg","contentUrl":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/05\/Create_a_single_vertical_9_16_202605081416.jpeg","width":558,"height":1000},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/?p=29610#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Home","item":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"I sat across from him and listed every impossible standard I had. \u201cI need a man with money, status, a house, a car\u2026 and absolutely no lies.\u201d He smiled, wearing a plain shirt and cheap-looking watch. \u201cSo\u2026 you wouldn\u2019t choose someone like me?\u201d I laughed. \u201cHonestly? No.\u201d Then the restaurant manager bowed beside our table. \u201cBoss, your private jet is ready.\u201d My fork froze. And his next words shattered everything I thought I knew\u2026"}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/#website","url":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/","name":"True Stories","description":"","potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":{"@type":"PropertyValueSpecification","valueRequired":true,"valueName":"search_term_string"}}],"inLanguage":"en-US"},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/#\/schema\/person\/5c3397997033ec1244d0e345888afa8e","name":"true love","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/7edec003db6c2d994c618a5c9257e4836d0823076211ef1f440ea5b2dfb07eb1?s=96&d=mm&r=g","contentUrl":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/7edec003db6c2d994c618a5c9257e4836d0823076211ef1f440ea5b2dfb07eb1?s=96&d=mm&r=g","caption":"true love"},"sameAs":["http:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org"],"url":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/?author=2"}]}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29610","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=29610"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29610\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":29612,"href":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/29610\/revisions\/29612"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/29611"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=29610"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=29610"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/true.lifestruepurpose.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=29610"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}